Powerful insights into personal growth and happiness. Unlocks invisible behavior patterns you must understand to solve personal problems.

If you can answer “Yes” to any of the questions below, reading Saying No to Naked Women will give you powerful insights into personal growth and happiness.

1. Do you dream of having a happier life, but despite your hopes and efforts, nothing much changes?

If you’re like many people I know, you do everything you can to make your life happier. But despite your hard work, and your feeling that you really have changed inside, people don’t seem to treat you any better.

I know it’s not much of a comfort to tell you it’s a common problem. But the good news is that there are reasons people get stuck in their problems. And if you start to understand what those reasons are, you can get unstuck – and build the life you’ve always dreamed about.

In Saying No to Naked Women, the hero, Jack Derritt, desperately wants to find the love of his life, marry her, and have children. But at the age of 30, he just can’t seem to meet his ideal woman. And when he tries to fantasize about her, his head fills with ugly pornographic images that won’t go away even though Jack hates them.

But a magical mentor helps Jack find the invisible behavior patterns that have kept him from happiness. As you read Saying No to Naked Women, you’ll see the process unfold, and understand why Jack couldn’t find the love of his life – and how he solves his problems.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

Your problems may be similar – or they may be very different. But I’m willing to bet dollars to donuts that you’ll be inspired by the changes Jack makes. And that inspiration could start you on the path of making some pretty amazing changes of your own.

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2. Do you believe you’re incomplete, and you need to find the right woman or man to become a whole person?

This is a common belief, and you hear it in popular music all the time. But the problem is that when you try to “become one” with another person, you invade their space and they invade yours, and you end up trying to control each other. That results in a great deal of anger, frustration, and pain.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

Jack Derritt, the hero of Saying No to Naked Women, has always believed he’s not a whole person – he describes himself as a “one-winged airplane.” So it’s no wonder he can’t fly in a straight line! He needs a woman to be his other wing – and then he’ll be able to navigate through life. Or so he thinks!

But who will decide which direction to fly in? Jack or his other-wing-woman? The conflict between Jack and Carol in Saying No to Naked Women makes them both desperately unhappy. She wants to fly one way, he another. She drinks and he runs away, but neither of them face the problems caused by their feeling like they’re incomplete people.

It’s only later in the novel that Jack’s mentor helps him understand why he feels incomplete – and what to do about it. And when Jack grows his other wing, and becomes a complete airplane in his own mind, he can fly in a straight line, right to true love!

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3. Are you a woman who dreams of meeting a man who’s really and truly interested in you – and not in having sex on the first date?

Imagine what it would be like if you met a man who really was interested in you as a person, and not just your beautiful body. Imagine if he asked you lots of questions to draw you out – and gave you plenty of information about himself, too.

Imagine if he could talk about his feelings, understand yours, and discuss his values and his beliefs – with never a mention of sports. Imagine that you could see yourself happily married to this man.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

It would be wonderful – or would it? Strange but true, it would also be scary and threatening to most women. Find out why, and what Jack does to ease Katie’s fears in a wonderfully romantic scene from Saying No to Naked Women.

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4. Do you feel like the place you’re living in is “Shitsville,” and you have to move somewhere else to find a better life?

Get rid of those problem people who surround you and exchange your boring life for a new, bold and adventurous one by moving out of “Shitsville” to another city or town? Many people dream of that.

Making a move can change your life – sometimes. But if you have problems that may be invisible to you, you’ll carry them with you, and it won’t be long before your new location becomes “Shitsville,” too.

Jack Derritt, the hero of Saying No to Naked Women has no idea he’s running away from his troubles when he builds a shack in the Ozark mountain backwoods.

But even in the forest, he can’t escape the unpleasant truth: he feels like a kid, not a man, he hasn’t found his ideal woman, and when he tries to daydream about her, his head fills with pornographic images he despises.

When a magical mentor appears at his shack, Jack begins to explore the causes of his problems. With his mentor's help, he solves the riddle that has kept him from truly understanding people of all kinds -- and finds the love of his life and the healthy relationship he's always wanted.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

When you read Saying No to Naked Women, you’ll see this unfold step-by-step – and understand why Jack goes back to “Shitsville” instead of moving on again. Because he’s dealt with his once-invisible problems, he is able to take the “shit” out of “Shitsville” and find happiness.

Watching this process unfold for Jack can inspire you to find a “wise one” like Jack’s mentor who can help you see your own invisible problems – and work on them so you’re happy and comfortable wherever you are.

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5. Are you still so furious at your parents, you want to scream at them, even though you are an adult?

Figuring out how to let go of anger at parents is a common problem – even for people in their 50s, 60s, and beyond. But it’s well worth finding a solution. That anger takes a lot of energy away from you – and interferes with more things than you can imagine!

Jack Derritt, the hero of Saying No to Naked Women is 30 – but he’s still consumed with fury at his parents. And even though Jack didn’t see it at first, that anger at his parents kept him from finding the love of his life.

To make matters more complicated, Jack’s father was dead, so Jack couldn’t settle his differences by talking with his Dad.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

With the help of a wise mentor, Jack is able to understand his anger, let go of it, and forgive his parents. When he does this, Jack feels like his shoulders have been freed from a huge weight. With that weight gone, he is able to figure out what invisible behavior patterns interfered with his quest for true love, and find the love of his life.

Reading Saying No to Naked Women will give you a chance to watch Jack figure all this out. You’ll see how his mentor uses stones to help Jack forgive his father, and storytelling to bring Jack to forgiveness for his mother.

As you observe this process, set in the lush forest of the Ozark Mountains, you could be inspired to figure out how to let go of your own anger at your parents.

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6. Do you keep getting involved with people who aren’t right for you?

Some of us just seem to be cursed by fate: we keep getting involved with people who cause problems, pain, and misery for us. And even though we make endless resolutions not to let this happen again, it does. Like Jack Derritt, the hero of Saying No to Naked Women, we can’t see the invisible behavior patterns that make sure we’re attracted to people who aren’t right for us.

Jack finds himself attracted to women with big problems again and again. When he finally figures out why women who don’t have problems actually scare him, he is able to break the pattern and find the love of his life.

When you read Saying No to Naked Women, you’ll see exactly how Jack figures out the deadly thought pattern that keeps him from true love, and you’ll enjoy reading about the wonderful romance that follows when he does.mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

Jack did it. And you could, too. This could be the inspiration you need to work on behavior patterns that lead you to get involved with problem people.

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7. Do you know a man plagued by pornographic fantasies that seem impossible to get rid of? mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

When a man develops a problem with pornographic fantasies, it’s almost always because he is angry about something – and he starts associating anger with sex. This is especially common now, with the explosion of pornography filled with hostile, aggressive, angry images of men humiliating and hurting women.

In addition to expressing anger, a man uses the pornography to reduce tension and anxiety caused by his personal problems, and, for a moment or two, release some of them with an orgasm. But since he’s done nothing to get at the causes of his problems, anger, tension, and anxiety quickly return, and it’s back to the pornography again. And since he uses pornography to masturbate, he starts to associate his anger with the pleasure of orgasm.

He may actually despise the pornographic images in his head, or a magazine or online – many men do – but because he hasn’t worked on his problems and his anger, the need to use pornography to release anger and tension keeps returning.

In Saying No to Naked Women, you’ll see how Jack Derritt, the novel’s hero, figures out the reasons for the anger that drive him to pornographic fantasies.

And you’ll follow the process Jack and his mentor use to rid Jack of those fantasies for once and for all. One of Jack’s problems is that he is so harsh with himself, he’s built up a tremendous self-hatred over the years. Jack’s mentor insists that Jack must learn to love himself.

His mentor helps Jack identify all his strengths and achievements – powerful assets Jack doesn’t even realize he has. When he finally strips away the self-loathing and looks at the man who is really there, Jack learns to love himself.

You might even say Jack has created a new identity for himself, because the old one was false and distorted.

The result: Jack reaps the reward of a great romance with the woman of his dreams.

Reading about Jack’s triumph over self-hatred, sexual addiction and porn values can inspire that man you know to begin his own healing process and could help him find his way to a porn-free life.

Saying No to Naked Women could be the greatest gift you can give to a man who is plagued by pornographic fantasies.

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8. Do you want to understand why your kids never seem grateful, even though you give them so much more than your parents ever gave you?

If you give your kids attention, love, and things you never had as a child, but find that they’re almost never grateful, you’re not alone. And if you wonder what in the world could make them behave that way, you’ve got plenty of company.

Even though your kids’ ungratefulness seems totally irrational, there are reasons for it. And some of them may be caused by your own invisible behavior patterns.

In Saying No to Naked Women, the novel’s hero, Jack Derritt, is furious with his parents – even though they gave him things they never had as kids. Lots of toys, his own room, a house in the country – nothing is enough for Jack.

When Jack’s mentor helps him explore the reasons for his anger, Jack begins to understand his parents better. And he actually comes to appreciate the marvelous gifts they gave him as a child – even the intangible things that have made his life richer.

When you read Saying No to Naked Women, you’ll see how Jack decoded the invisible behavior patterns that caused so much conflict with his parents – and how coming to understand those patterns leads Jack to a genuine appreciation of his parents.

Jack’s insights and forgiveness could inspire you to a better understanding of both your own parents and your kids. And that new understanding could make your life richer and happier. mas1027tofoy&33eh#$675

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