Dear
Friend:
You're
out on a first date with a guy you've known casually
for a while. You think he's a nice guy, but even nice
guys seem to have only two one things on their minds.
Sports.
And Sex.
But
this man is different. He doesn't talk about football
or baseball. He doesn't talk a whole lot about himself.
And he's not coming on to you.
He
wants to talk about you.
He's
just that into you!
He
asks you lots of questions - including questions no
other guy has ever asked you. Questions about your
family. Your hobbies. And your values.
It's
not that he's keeping secrets. When you ask him questions,
he gives you thoughtful answers. But he makes it a
two-way conversation, not a one-way street.
And
he's not a cold fish, either. During this long date,
which extends from afternoon into evening, he's been
holding your hand. Read
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SHOULD
YOU ASK HIM TO COME IN?
Just the feel of his
hand in yours sends tingles up your arm - and down
there.
Is
this the guy you've always dreamed of? The guy who
really cares about you? The guy who wants a real partnership
with the love of his life, and who's willing to work
to make it happen?
Will
he ask you to sleep with him tonight?
Now
you're pulling up to your apartment in his car. Should
you ask him in?
Yes!
He's the nicest, most interesting guy you ever dated.
And you don't want to lose him. Even if he expects
you to sleep with him tonight.
No!
You're not ready to. You just don't believe in doing
that on a first date, even though you've known him
for several months.
The
two thoughts wage a furious battle in your mind: No!
Yes! No!
You
don't know how to make a decision.
But
when he turns off the car's engine, you blurt out,
"Will you come upstairs for a while?" "I've
got condoms. I've got spermicide," you say to
yourself. And you lead him upstairs to your apartment.
He
sits next to you on your couch - and continues your
conversation. Read your
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HIS
WORDS ARE LIKE POETRY
Ecstasy!
He really is interested in me. He's not coming on
to me, even thought I'm so sexy.
Despair!
He's not coming on to me.
Maybe
he really doesn't want me. Maybe I'm not sexy enough.
He
senses your uneasiness by the look on your face.
He
gets you talking about it.
And
then he admits he has the same conflict you do. He's
throbbing with desire for you. But he wants a healthy
relationship, not just sex.
Yes!
He wants you. But he wants the whole you. Including
the things he doesn't know about you yet. But he doesn't
leave it at that! He tells you how pretty you are.
His words seem like poetry.
It's
a night you'll always remember!
Wow,
he's handsome! That tingle I feel is driving me wild
now.
I
want to tell you the wonderful, romantic story about
this man named Jack - and Katie, the woman he falls
deeply in love with. Read
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It's
an inspiring story for women to read in this age when
it feels like pornographic images and values are surrounding
us.
Those
values are poison. They can cause nasty personal problems
for women. They lead men to make demands on women
that undermine relationships.
JUST
THAT INTO YOU
How
can you love a man who wants you to do things that
hurt your body and wound your soul? I don't have to
name them. We both know what they are.
The
pressure of pornographic values is powerful. Many
women submit to them. They give up on love and settle
for sex.
But
Katie wasn't willing to settle for friends with benefits,
hooking up, and porn values. And you don't have to,
either.
Because
even if your dream of true love has been battered
and bruised by a parade of men who want you to perform
like a porn star, you can still find the man of your
dreams.
You
have to nourish that dream, keep it alive, and help
it grow until you find the love of your life. The
movies and TV won't help you do that.
There's
no TV show called "He's just that into you."
The
values shown on TV and in the movies are almost never
about love.
Fantasizing
about Mr. Right can actually help you find a man who
believes in love. A man who cares about you. A man
who wants to be close to you during sex, willing to
hug you, caress you, and say tender things to you
that he really means. A healthy relationship.
Katie
found a man like that in Jack. Read
your free chapter now!
But
Jack wasn't always that way.
The
truth is, Jack had a huge personal problem in his
past. He was once a sex addict. He was into porn values
in a big way.
HE
FREED HIMSELF
FROM PORN VALUES
Like
many men who are into porn, Jack actually hated it.
He
realized porn values attracted him to the wrong kinds
of women.
He
finally understood he'd never find the love of his
life as long as he embraced porn values.
He
knew he needed help. He found it. And he conquered
porn for once and for all.
Not
by wishing for it to leave him alone. That won't work.
Not
by making resolutions to banish pornographic values
from his mind. That won't work either.
Jack
conquered porn by understanding why he was attracted
to it. And making important changes in his thinking
so that porn was no longer attractive to him.
He
had to take a long, hard look at his fantasies. He
had to examine his unsatisfactory relationships with
women. And he had to create new ways of thinking and
new values for himself.
Jack's
story will inspire you. Here was a man with a huge
heart, who loved children and wanted to have kids
of his own.
But
he could not understand why the love of his life was
nowhere to be found.
Until
he conquered porn - and found Katie.
There
is hope. For men. For women. For Love. For you.™
Read your free chapter
now!
ROMANTIC
STORY
Best
of all, the process Jack followed is no mystery. It's
based on the science of psychology. So it can be duplicated
- and followed - by other men.
"Jack
and Katie's story is based on sound psychology,"
says practicing psychotherapist Dr. James Kousoulas,
who has helped many men overcome sexual addiction
and change pornographic thinking into loving thinking.
"These
inspiring stories show what happens when a good counselor
helps men change."
There's
no psychological mumbo-jumbo in Jack and Katie's story.
It's told in plain English. And it's fictionalized,
so it's easy and fun to read.
You
can read Jack and Katie's story in less than 29 minutes!
Read your free chapter now! I'm
willing to bet you won't be able to it down once you've
started reading. You'll be encouraged by Jack and
Katie's story, "Imagine
if a guy was really interested in you - and not sex
- on the first date!" . And thrilled, too.
There is hope. For men. For women. For Love. For you.™
Read
your free chapter now!
Sincerely,
Pat
Johnson-Hart
Editorial Director
A Healthy Relationship Press
